Santa Barbara Therapy
California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists
Word To The Wise

Alignment

I once bought a printer that required some judgment on my part in order to interface correctly with my computer. This was back in the days of dot-matrix printers, so a long time ago.

Love

I love my clients. There, I said it. I love my clients. Not in a lusty, desiring kind of way, but in a willing-the-good-of-another kind of way.

Ordinary/Extraordinary

Sometimes, when I am feeling lonely or blue, I find solace in a long walk by myself. And sometimes, when I'm lucky, something extraordinary happens.

Resistance

Simply put, resistance is an attempt to protect the system, whatever that system may be. It is neither positive nor negative, but context makes it so.

Curiosity

"The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity." - Dorothy Parker

Hello

Maybe languages in which hello and goodbye are the same word – shalom, aloha, ciao – really have it right. In every hello, the goodbye is present.
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